Where have all the men gone????!!!!!

SOOO I was supposed to have plans with Ari tonight(guy who has taken me out a bunch of times since i moved back home- kissed a few times, dont know if im interested or not). But recently, things have been getting weird...ugh, let me start from the beginning....

Me and Ari met through a mutual friend WAY back in high school. We wound up seeing eachother more and more, and then eventually dating when I came home for the first summer after my freshman year in college. We never had an issue being intimate with eachother- kissing wasnt an issue, and it seemed like he always wanted to and he made the first move all the time...

Fast forward four years later to now, and this crap gets confusing. He sees via facebook that I have moved back to So. Flo to do this internship....he immediately suggests dinner. This one dinner turned into another dinner and a movie, then dinner casino and club and a kiss, then meet his whole family! Anyone disagree that it looks like he wants to be a little more than friends?

But things seem sketchy with him. One minute im the only thing he can think of, the next he is more interested in texting than me. So last night, he really wanted to move our movie dinner date to last night. I couldnt, so he said it was still ok to do it tonight. Now all of a sudden he cancelled....wtf!!!!???

SOO my question is, where have all the men gone????!!!! Im not talking about these little boys that are just interested in playing games and dont have proper etiquette when it comes to how to treat ladies.

Guys: even though its 2010, ladies STILL want the same thing- romance, to be swept off our feet. If you are not ready to give that, then DONT DATE....seriously, maybe I am just old-fashioned, but you dont text during a date. You dont pull in someone for a kiss one night, and then seem more interested in the remote than your girl the next. What is wrong with you!

Where have all the gentlemen gone? The ones who will jump infront of a bus to save a woman in its path, even if they dont know who they are. Honestly, are they all being held hostage somewhere? Are they all in Haiti helping others like Kris? Or did they all die out and my father is the last surviving one. If this is so, then I guess I need to be a cat lady or a lesbian or something....

Kris is one of these guys. He is currently in Haiti helping with medics to hospitalize the injured. Sigh....such a great guy. Why did I not try to date him instead of Ari....guess I missed that opportunity :-(

Sigh, depressing....Dont ever know if I will find my Prince Charming Hopeless Romantic Knight in Shining Armour....maybe in another life.


sigh, peace im out